Tuesday, March 26, 2013

don't play by the rules

Verse 2.38: Do thou fight for the sake of fighting, without considering happiness or distress, loss or gain, victory or defeat — and by so doing you shall never incur sin.

We live in a world filled with duality. No one experiences happiness without distress or victory without defeat. In other words, to understand one thing, you also need to understand the opposite. So what do we do? We try to minimize the "bad" and maximize the possibility of getting the "good".

However, Krsna is presenting something really interesting here. He's telling Arjuna, "Don't play by the rules." What rules am I speaking of? Those that come attached with living in this world.

Did you know that? Yoga is all about not playing by the rules. Perhaps the rebel in you is rejoicing just reading that; I know my inner rebel did!

By acting in ways that increase the chances of us being "happy", we are conforming to the rules of the material world. Instead, Krsna is informing Arjuna, "There is another option!" Instead of searching after happiness, and trying at all costs to avoid distress, Krsna presents the concept of balance.

Instead of thinking of oneself and the "happiness" or "distress" that will come according to the action we perform, Krsna is suggesting that Arjuna act for the sake of acting. Interesting concept, isn't it? Putting it another way, we're being presented with the message: Focus on doing the right thing, not on doing things right.

What happens as a result? Instead of living in the future, you are forced to live in the present. Observe yourself the next time you are doing something. More often that not, when we act with the intention of getting a result "for me" (i.e. money, fame, happiness etc..), our minds tend to jump automatically to that desired result. It becomes hard to focus on the task at hand. However, if we act for the sake of doing something properly, our mind doesn't wander as much.

How is this balance, you ask? One could argue, "But isn't this actually going completely in the opposite direction. We're being asked to give up all self-interest!" Not really. The complete opposite would be to simply not care at all which is not what balance is about. The motivation to act still remains, it's just centred on performing the activity the best we can.

So go ahead and be a rebel! Take the opportunity to focus on doing the right thing, and not on doing things right.

11 comments:

  1. I liked this, doing the right thing instead of doing things right. Good post!

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    1. Thanks Cairn! I heard that saying awhile back and try to remember it whenever I'm starting something new. :)

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  2. Love this advice, Vrndavana! We should focus on doing the right thing, not doing things right.
    Blessings!

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  3. Love that quote! I can't wait to use it somewhere:)Thankyou for my inspiration of the day!

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    1. Morning Lisa! It is a great quote, isn't it? Now, it's all about applying it in our day to day lives...but no worries. We keep getting plenty of opportunities to keep practicing!

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  4. I could mull over in my mind the difference between doing things right vs. doing the right thing all day long... the logic always just seems to become a bit circular after awhile. I think living in the present is a very hard thing to attain, especially for people from Western culture. Thanks for the thought-provoking post.

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    1. It's very true what you say that living in the present can be a very hard thing to attain. The fact that you recognize that in and of itself is so admirable.

      The Gita actually describes how to do this in an easy to understand manner. In fact I'll be writing my reflections on it today, as that's what the very next verse talks about! So if you're interested, I'd like to invite you to check back in later on today! Hope you have a wonderful day!

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  5. I always bounce between doing the right thing and doing things right. It is easy to see how each is beneficial and how beneficial it can be to do both. Too few people forget this and it's a shame how selfish our world is anymore.

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    1. Totally agree with you MK. It is unfortunate that the world is definitely leaning more towards selfishness. The silver lining is that it is an opportunity for us, as individuals, to inspire change by trying to practice selflessness in our own lives.

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  6. Very interesting post, I absolutely agree! Thanks for sharing!

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